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1.  A woman who can be shy and reserved.
Response:  This is true to a certain extent, I am shy around people that I have just meet. However, when it comes to people that I have been around for awhile I am very outspoken.

2. You are not one to volunteer your thoughts freely as they come to mind.
Response:  Absolutely true. I keep my thoughts to myself both the good and the bad. I feel that when I do let out my thoughts I am getting judged by what  I say. So thats why I keep my thoughts to myself.

 3. It takes you time to open up around strangers. You want to feel safe before you divulge your inner most feelings.
Response:  Oh yes...I am not one to tell complete strangers about what goes on in my life. I like to get know a person before I got into my hidden self.

 

4.  Sometimes you doubt yourself more than you should.

Response:  This is amazing. This is also true. I try to do the right thing in all that I do and I often doubt myself on did I do enough or should I have done more.

 

5.  You can be very self-critical.
Response: True.
 

6. You are a generous and giving person.

Response:  I am one that loves to help others. Sometimes people like to take advantage of that.

 

7.  You are not judgmental of others.

Response:  I don't judge people for the simple fact that I don't want them to judge me.

 

8. Simple pleasures make you happy.

Response:  I am a happy person. Things can seem so small can mean the world to me.

 

9. You prefer order over random chance.

Response:  Yes I like to know what to do and when to do.

 

10.  You want to know what is expected of you.

Response:  I like to know what is expected so that I can accomplish it to my fullest ability.

 

11.   BUT you are not a rigid person, or a person who thrives on structure.  You like a happy balance.

Response:  That is so correct. Its hard to respond to this one. You hit it right on the dot.

 

12.  Sometimes you lack the motivation to follow things through, and you are hard on yourself when you do this!

Response:  I agree with this to a certain extent. I try to always motivate myself to do the right things and what needs to be done, but there are times where I loose that motivation and your right, and  I take it  out on myself.

 

 13.  You enjoy having a few close best friends over a bunch of acquaintances.

Response:  I do enjoy to have a few close friends rather than several distant friends. I like to spend my time with each friend and that's not possible when you have alot of friends scattered everywhere.

 

14. You enjoy time alone equally as much as being with your friends.

Response:  Oh yes! If I don't have what I call "My Time" it makes a big difference in the way I come across to people on a daily basics.

 

15.   You would not enjoy a job where you are the center of attention.

Response:  I don't like to be the center of attention and never have. I get overwhelmed when I am put in that circumstance.

 

16.   Public speaking would make you very nervous.

Response:  Oh It does. Alot of the time I get so nervous its almost impossible for me to get out what I am trying to say.

 

17.   You are very courteous to others.

Response:  Absolutely. Goes back to I treat others the way I hope to be treated. I also am willing to help anyone in any way that I can. 

  

18.   Even if someone upset you, you are one to bite your lip and keep it to yourself.   

Response:  I do...I keep my thoughts to myself because all its going to do is make the situation worse if I do voice my opinions.

 

19.   You are very adaptable.  You ebb and flow easily.

Response: I do agree. I can do anything I put my mind to. Adapting easily to new things makes it easier to get things done.

 

20.   You don’t have to have things “your way”. 

Response:  I would rather please someone else than getting it my way.

 

21.   You are compassionate when other people are hurting.  You pick up on their pain more than the average person.

Response:  WOW...that's about all I can say...I don't like to see people hurting due to the fact I place myself into their shoes to know where they are coming from or what they are going through.

 

22.   With that, you tend to want to make things better for people in pain anyway you can. You will go out of your way to make a crying person smile.  It makes you feel better.

Response: This is kinda scary. Its so true. I have worked for hospice for 2 years. I feel that it takes someone special to do that and I was a chosen one. I love to help people in their time of need.

 

23.    You have a competitive streak.  If you were in sports, which I suspect you were, you wanted to win.  It was important to you.

Response:  Yes it was. I felt if I did'nt win I did not try my hardest.

 

24.   You work well with a group of people.  You can blend in easily.

Response:  I do work well with others. I am one who can work with any kind of person and it work out in the long run.

 

25.    You are usually punctual for engagement and appointments.  If you are going to be late, you will call and let people know.

Response:  I feel that I should. I like to be on time for things.

 

26.   You are not the type of person who will disappear for hours without telling anyone.  People can always find you.  You are predictable.

Response:  So true...There is always someone who knows where I am at all times. I feel that they should that way if something were to come up they would know where to find me.

 

27.   You are reliable and trustworthy.  When you give your word you mean it.

Response: I feel that being both reliable and trustworthy are very important in life. I am one that when I give my word you can count on it.

 

28.   You will keep secrets when asked to do so.

Response: Yes. That goes back to being trustworthy. You have to trust people in order to have a good relationship.

 

29.   You are forgiving of others when they apologize.  You don’t hold a grudge.

Response: I look at it as you never know when God decides for you to go. I am one that does'nt want to have enemys when I am gone.

 

30.   Sometimes you forgive too easily.

Response: Oh yes...but for me its hard not too.

 

31.   At times, you may struggle to say “no” to people when you really want to.

Response:  Oh yes.. I am one that will do pretty much anything you ask mostly because I don't have the heart to tell you no and I don't want to let anyone down.

 

32.   You spend a fair amount of time contemplating life.  You are a thinker. 

Response: I am and sometimes I wish I would just let it go and what happens happens, but I am not that kinda person.

 

33.   If you had to chose between the following two words, confident or self-conscious, you would chose “self-conscious”.

Response:  I would...I would rather be self- conscious than confident at any time...

 

34.   If you had to choose between being spiritually fulfilled in life, or being financially well off (have over a million dollars), you would chose spiritually fulfilled.

Response:  As weird as it sounds coming from a women, but yes money does'nt buy happiness.

 

35.   You are down-to-earth.

Response:  Very...I am very laid back as well

 

36.   You enjoy nature and the outdoors.

Response:  I feel relaxed when I am outdoors. I am very outgoing so I enjoy doing different things that involve the outdoors.

 

 37.   A weekend camping with friends would be right up your alley.

Response: Oh yes....And pretty much it is. I love to go camping and hanging out with my brother and our friends.

 

38.   Formal affairs tend to make you nervous—especially if you don’t know what to expect.

Response:  Yes..because I am a down-to-earth person that formal affairs make me nervous. I like to know what to expect and when I don't I feel overwhelmed with what if I don't accomplish it the way I should.

 

39.   You take a fair amount of time before making a decision.  When you make a decision, you are serious about it.

Response:  Yes. all decisions are important. From small ones to life changing ones.

 

40.   You don’t like to work under pressure.  Some people get exhilarated by deadlines.  You don’t.

Response:  I do not like to work under pressure. You give me a deadline and then give me my space to accomplish it and I do just fine.

 

41.   You enjoy a good workout. Physical activity motivates you.

Response:  Scary...you are so right. I run all the time. It motivates me to a point of figuring out what needs to be done and what does'nt. Goes back to me thinking to much..I know..However at the same time running relaxes me if I am stressed.

 

Okay, how did I do? 

Overall Response: WOW I think this is amazing there is not a single comment that was wrong and some where so close to being exactly who I am; that its scary. Thank You I really enjoyed this.